Cinco De Mayo

This last weekend, we had dinner plans with our usual party friends for Cinco De Mayo. So of course we had Mexican style food, and I made margarita cupcakes that were pretty delish.

But after this night, I am starting to question where we stand with them as people. They were pretty much talking behind one of their good friends back about how his girlfriend is horrible and they hate her, bash bash bash. I have met the girl, I at first thought the way she talked was kind of “nose in the air” so to speak, but I’ve met her multiple times and that’s just how she talks. She has been nothing but nice to me, so I have no idea why they’re all of a sudden hating on her, but I assume its because their friend “the boyfriend” of this said girl has kind of isolated himself away from them. I imagine it’s because they told him that they don’t like her, which I would too. These people are older than I am, some twice as old and I am starting to realize that people never grow out of that high school “bullying, judgmental” stage and it’s quite sad. I’ve done it in my time, but I am not that quick to judge and belittle people.

They ended up putting her head on the boss from dukes of hazard since they said she resembled him. I recall doing this once to my friend but I showed her, and now that I take a look outside of the box, I realize that this is just childish. I told them that I was afraid to see what they stuck my face to since they openly admit that they talk shit about everyone, so there’s no denying that they’ve done it to my boyfriend and I.

Now the question is, do I want to continue to associate myself with these kind of people that have nothing better to do than to humiliate people behind their backs?